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emotionalEyes872
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I feel like crab for wanting to go out
Relationship Stress / by emotionalEyes872
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 November 8th, 2025
...See more I might be a complete *** but i really could use some advice I (21f) became legal this year so i started going out to clubs with my girlfriend of two years (21f) At first we used to have fun together but then we started having problems but we compromised on a lot of things and reached a middle ground on some topics We got into a lot of problems (other reasons)so we took a break and got back together Later on i found out that at the time we were on a break she got sexually assaulted She has been traumatized, i tried to be there for her in every way that i can However after a little bit of time passed by i noticed that her anger and jealousy in clubs started getting more and more intense I told her that i understand how this is triggering so she doesn’t need to come with me and i’ll keep her updated and call her and send videos to her ect ect.. but she tells me that she can’t just let me go without her cause she’ll worry and she’ll end up following me even if i kept updating her and calling her We don’t have gay bars in my country, i dress the way she likes and i don’t talk to guys at ALL even if they were gay just to respect her I do feel childish and selfish for still wanting to go out after what happened to her but I can’t help it I was raised in a very very strict religious home and i just started living my life two years ago when i moved out I feel like i am still too young and that i haven’t had enough fun in life especially that i want her to be my forever so breaking up is not on the table Is there a possible solution or should i just stop being selfish and get rid the idea of going out all together?
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