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...See more My ex and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. The relationship was rocky at times but we managed to communicate and move forward. For a while there has been the talking about moving in, and I always been the one saying I wanted to but I needed to find some more stability in my job first but in few months I would have had some clarity. For a while this was ok, then he started changing his mind and then go back talking about it. He has been living on a boat for some months and just recently he decided to host random people on it. When he communicated this to me I felt so confused and afraid I was just going to get hurt that I broke up. I regretted and the day after I tried to explain to him how I felt but he pushed me away saying it was better this way and we weren't a good match. I severed the contact for my own health, and after 2 weeks he wrote me a letter saying he still loves me and miss me and hope we can come to a place where we can see each other soon. After a couple more weeks he emailed me recommending to go to a trip with his friends because he wasn't going. Then texted me that he thinks about me often and hope I am doing well. Then all in a sudden he posted publicly about a boat trip on FB to invite who ever wants to join. I am not sure what to say, but I am very confused whether he is playing with me or if he is sincere. I don't want to get hurt, but I am ready to move in with him and I don't feel like going back to where we were. What should I do?

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