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No contact after 7 years together
Relationship Stress / by enthusiasticBunny7917
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 September 21st, 2021
...See more Hi. I've been going through a rough time. My relationship of 7 years ended. We are fighting a lot and we had a screaming match and someone called the cops and said they saw the guy shoved me. So he's been charged with domestic assault. And now we can't have any contact at all and we can't until he goes to court and there's a decision made. But with covid that could be delayed longer. I know we're very toxic, or at least we became toxic near the end. I feel really terrible, because even if charges get dismissed it's still on his record and he works in medicine. He won't pass any screening and I feel like it's all my fault. It was one shelf I didn't get hurt and I was in his face. And I'm just struggling because yeah we've been off and on for like 7 years but we've never gone more than a day without talking. And things are really bad and I feel like I ruined his life. And I know I did. And I'm struggling, because I just want him home and you can't get back together with someone after they ruin your life. I did my best, I called his parents and I called a lawyer immediately. I begged the police not to arrest him. I'm alone and I don't know how to be alone. We talked every single day, and I would come home with him everyday. And now it's nothing there is nothing. I don't know how not to be sad, I don't know how to work on myself. I can't sleep.
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