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...See more I am 16 years old and started dating my boyfriend almost a month ago. Things have been great and I thought he was absolutely perfect until some red flags popped up. At first he was so sweet and met my parents and even my parents respect him and I was sure he was absolutely perfect… but earlier he was complimenting me, saying I’m amazing and stunning and beautiful then not even five minutes later he said… “so, dtf?” and as a 16 year old girl who had major trust/ intimacy issues and a rough background with men I was so terrified. He insists that it was a joke but I really don’t think it was a joke. The way he went from telling me I’m amazing and beautiful to asking me if I’d be dtf just terrified me and it makes me think maybe he’s not the perfect guy I had made him out to be in my head. I just got done going through a whole panic attack about it because I’m a big baby that can’t deal with my emotions properly, but I needed to get it off my chest because I’m confused right now. and now that I think about it, he says a lot of concerning stuff that I genuinely thought was a joke for a while. Things like “I could show you a good time ;)” and “I wish you were in my bed with me rn” and things like that. I don’t know, maybe it’s completely innocent and I’m blowing it way out of proportion but I have a gut feeling.Thanks for reading<3

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