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fearlessPlum1988
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Boyfriend is breaking up with me for Graduate school
35 & Over Community / by fearlessPlum1988
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 May 30th, 2025
...See more Hello everyone, My boyfriend for more than a year broke the news to me last week that he basically wants us to break up because he’s going to graduate school in the Fall. He wants this breakup because he said verbatim that he will be with other women once he gets there. His school is in another state, so we won’t be near each other anymore. He even cancelled plans he made just us to spend time together for Memorial Day (US holiday) because we live far away from each now and barely see each other. I realized that he never really loved me and was just with me for convenience. I’m not sure what to think or do. Any advice will be greatly appreciated. Thank you
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Recently Dumped
35 & Over Community / by fearlessPlum1988
Last post
 August 27th, 2024
...See more Hello Everyone, Its a pleasure to meet everyone in advance. Well, as you see from the title I was recently dumped and kicked to the curb a couple of days after my birthday. I’m a female that (by societal standards) lack sexual experience for my age group (millennial). My ex recently broke up with me because I didn't perform a sex act the way he wanted me to. Mind you, we’ve had sex plenty of other times and he barely complained (well he would complain if the position seemed awkward on my end) He told me he still loves me but I had to go because I couldn't satisfy him. He said he can no longer be patient with my inexperience because I guess he thought I was wasting his time. I told him I hope he finds someone to satisfy him but he said I was “playing the victim” which I don't know how I would be. This incident has left me feeling confused, ugly, and defeated. Any viewpoints or clarity would help. Thanks so much.
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