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flowers74
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My husband won
Relationship Stress / by flowers74
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 October 29th, 2017
...See more I am in my mid-30s, husband of 2 years in his late 40s. When we were dating we had a healthy sex life. By healthy I mean that there was desire and genuine interest in one another. We have been intimate once in the past 4 months. Before that it was another 4 months. Before that 6. He doesnt look at me, touch me even in passing, comment about my appearance. He rebuffs my advances. I was shockingly underweight when we married and was gym-obsessed, at his urging. Since taking on a new career I go to the gym less and have gained about 10 lbs - still size 2 and 0. I used to wax all of my hair so that he would want me. Since he never even sees me naked i stopped. I dont feel I should have to do all of these artificial things to deserve love and affection. This cant last. I am tired of asking myself what is wrong with me and just want to be desired by the person I am committed to monotonously.
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