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“Problems with my boyfriend.
Anxiety Support / by forcefulKitten1697
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 October 9th, 2025
...See more With my boyfriend, we’ve been having some issues over the past few months. It all started around June—we’ve become really distant, and we’ve lost the initial feelings we had. I was the one who started losing feelings first, and then he did too. However, we still act like a normal couple: we cuddle, go out together, and spend time with friends. Lately, I’ve started regaining my feelings for him, but the other day after a discussion, he told me that he has lost some of his feelings because he sees me as sad when I’m with him. According to him, one of the main issues is that I don’t express what I’m feeling. If I have anxiety or problems, I prefer to stay quiet, and that bothers him because he says I seem like a robot. He also told me that right now he’s just hoping that things change. We’re going on a trip in a few days, and he said that maybe during the trip he’ll realize that I’m not the problem, but rather the environment, since he’s under a lot of stress at home due to studying medicine. He’s hoping the trip will be a private moment for us and that everything will work out. However, he’s afraid that when he comes back, if he still doesn’t feel good, he might have to consider breaking up. I don’t know how to handle that because I told him I want to grow together and solve our problems. He told me that he agrees and wants that too, but from now on I don’t know what to do or how to fix things, and it’s giving me a lot of anxiety.
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