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frankScarf835
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Leading a fulfilling life
Healthy Living / by frankScarf835
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 July 26th, 2024
...See more What is your definition of a fulfilling life? This varies from person to person, but I would like to hear from you. Recently I've been feeling very stuck, like I'm living my life on auto pilot with no excitement or joy... I want to make my life more fulfilling and fun but I don't know how to. Any advice? :)
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Comparison to the people around me
Self-Esteem / by frankScarf835
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 July 19th, 2024
...See more Hey guys, over the past few years, I've tried my best to not compare myself to my peers and the people around me, especially when scrolling through my feed on social media. It went to the point that I had to delete the apps on my phone. But recently, a boss from work keeps comparing me with herself. She's a high flyer and super driven, while I am super unmotivated and still don't know what I want to do in life. She keeps mentioning that at my age, she already had such and such achievements. She says she is doing this comparison because she wants me to "wake up" and push me to do better, and I can't help but think that way to some extent as well, and I am catching myself unconsciously starting to compare myself again. It feels like I'm in my head so much and it is suffocating, especially when she voices it out so often. Wondering if anyone feels this way too?
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