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Hello! I'm someone you can lean on. 🙂 I would be really happy to help someone.
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Hot and Cold Treatment
Relationship Stress / by friendlyBlanket2910
Last post
 April 17th, 2021
...See more My ex and I broke up 7 months ago, we had no contact ever since until he reached out to me all of a sudden last January. He called one day asking how am I, and him reminiscing the things we did when we're together and joking around that we should meet again. The first time that we did talk I already asked him where is this going because I know that he knows that I still love him and he told me to take it easy. It goes on like this like every 2 days and he'll just call all of a sudden. and then come March, he just like stopped calling me til now, we're also workmates and whenever we had a meeting the past few days I feel like he's acting cold or like he didnt know me all over again like the treatment we had few months after break up. Its just so confusing and I feel so pathetic all over again, i thought we were building something or taking it slow to start over, i don't wanna be the first to contact him, i am so tired and exhausted to still force myself to him. I know he's a good man and he'll never intentionally hurt me or maybe he's confused as I am but I'm really having a difficulty on what's going on in his mind. Please enlighten me. ps. We had a decent proper break up and there's no third party, he's having quarter life crisis and just want to figure out things alone
How come one day, he doesn't want to be with me anymore.
Relationship Stress / by friendlyBlanket2910
Last post
 November 13th, 2020
...See more We broke up two months ago, he said that he's so confused and lost and that he wants to be alone and he wanted to try to find that happiness without depending on me. I thought we're good, we did not fight or anything. I just began to notice it when he started to get cold. When we finally got the chance to meet again in person, i thought we're gonna try to catch things up but he started to say all those things to me and that he wanted to break up with me. He said that there's no one else and I actually believe him(my instinct says so). I have no choice but to just let him go. I love him so much that all I want is for him to be happy. But now, still... It feels like hell, painful, confusing, lonely. I kept questioning and wondering everything even when we got a decent closure and talk things out. How ironic that his last words to me is "I love you". I'm wondering everyday if he's still thinking about me or is he experiencing the pain that I'm feeling. Right now, i'm still checking up on him if he's online on his social media and even check what he's watching in our Netflix account! I guess I just really feel miserable right now, writing this and crying at 3am in the morning. Maybe what I'm so sure right now is that Everything happens for a reason, i just don't know yet what it is.
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