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...See more i’ve told one person about this and their reaction to it makes me feel like it’s not a big deal and i don’t know if it is or not. i’ve been struggling with this for months and i can’t seem to talk about it but i need to say it because i just need feedback on what this is and what happened or if i’m making a bigger deal of this than i should be. this may be a bit detailed so if it will bother you, please do not read this. a few months ago i was dating a guy and whenever we would see each other he always wanted to do something sexual and most of the time i would not want to but by the end of the day we would always end up doing something and he would take me home and apologize because we did things. but specifically, one time i was at his house and he asked me if i wanted to have sex and i said i didn’t want to. he asked me why and i just said that i just didn’t want to. he continued to ask me a few more times until he realized that i really just was not going to change my answer. we later smoked “mj” and it was my first time in a while and i was a bit too high. he walked me over to his room and for a while we were watching a show then we kissed and he started to remove my clothes. i was still very high and everything was loopy. he asked me again while he was taking my clothes off and i said “i just really don’t think i want to, ok?” but he continued to remove my clothes and finally when i was sprawled of his bed, staring at the ceiling, unable to move, he asked me again and i said okay. i felt as though it was going to happen anyway. but i still said yes in the end. did i consent? am i making a big deal out of this? i just need to know what happened, please.

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