Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
gentleHuman863
1 5,874 M Moving Along 1
PathStep 4 Compassion hearts99 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes0 Current upvotes0 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2026 Member sinceApril 9, 2025
Bio
Recent forum posts
gentleHuman863 profile picture
Confused about myself
Relationship Stress / by gentleHuman863
Last post
 December 30th, 2025
...See more Hi! I have recently ended a 3y relationship with my bf, which has been a rollercoaster over the past year, as he lied to me repeatedly and broke my trust, until I couldn’t take it anymore. After a painful breakup, as i still felt love and attachment towards him, I distracted myself by downloading dating apps and chatting with men, sometimes in a sexual way. After a couple days of no contact, my bf reached out to me, and said that he wants me back, and booked a flight ticket across the globe to prove me his intentions (im on a winter holiday in my homecountry). I admit that there is possibility that I will forgive him and get back together (if my feelings come back fully and I choose to trust him again), but I also feel bad for talking and *** with other men. I feel extremely bad and I know it would hurt him a lot to know this. I did tell him about getting on dating apps and texting but he doesnt know everything. Just for the reference, he was apparently watching *** compilations of hot women and sexual trends on youtube himself, before we even broke contact. I knew about it from his youtube history and called him out: he tried to lie that somebody hacked him but eventually admitted it and apologized. Do you think this relationship has another chance? Is it wrong what i did? Do i owe him the truth?
Search more from @gentleHuman863
Considering Therapy?
Talk to an expert therapist
Badges & Awards
17 total badges
Hand Shake Linked Quintet Chief Chat Honest Voice Confident Voice Strong Start Milestone Journeying Strong Reconnect Walking Together First Post Reaching out First Compassion Helpful heart Togetherness Strong Bond I
Report an issue