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gentleSailboat9460
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Hi my name is Kat
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 August 25th
...See more My husband recently left me. Due to my struggles with abusive toxic patterns along side alcoholism. I’m proud to say that I quit but unfortunately the lasting damage due to my inability to realize I had a problem since my dad passed in 2023, has caused me to lose my better half. I quit drinking the day after he left , it’s like something snapped in me and I came back into reality. I started therapy last Wednesday and I’ve been there three times so far. Two more appointments and then I will get situated on medication and a treatment plan. I struggle with BPD and the alcohol definitely did not help that. Obviously. Since again, I lost my best friend. Everything happens for a reason and some things are out of our control. That gives me peace. And the fact that I’m not hurting him anymore and I’m becoming who I was before the hurt, but stronger. So that’s a bit about me and my situation. I’m looking for a community that maybe can relate on either side.
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