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gentleSun78 |
Listener - Virtuoso 10

Listener Rating
4.5 star rating
Some information about me:

I am a verified listener and peer supporter.

I don't take chats on self harm, LGBT, religion and eating disorders as i am not comfortable taking them.

Number of Ratings: 78
Number of Reviews: 37
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Slovenian
Listener Since Dec 19, 2017
Last Active in last week
Progress Path Step 431
Cheers 206,204
People Helped 278
Chats 502
Group Support Chats 2,281
Listener Group Chats 1,221
Forum Posts 406
Forum Upvotes 471
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Feedback & Reviews
Very kind and helpful, listened without judging, a great listener :)
They were kind and welcoming. They listened well and provided questions to let me think about my situation.
Kind, gentle and compassionate
Kind and interested in my situation
Listened to me and was very kind.
Very empathetic listener! loved talking to them
Good person............
Very encouraging non judgmental, empathic listener. Very kind and patient
Gentlesun is a great listener, who took time to understand and empathise with my situation.
she is good and kind. i like her.
Listener was helpful and good
a good and compassionate listener
GentltleSun78 was very helpful and kind.
pretty cool bloke if you ask me
very kind and compassionate
It was good and the listener helped me
Sun was great! They were very helpful and supportive. I would definitely talk to them again
A patient listener, quite respectful, it was really nice talking to you. Keep up the good work!
Very good listener, made me feel better about my situation, thank you
Listener responded very kindly and supportive
Very nice listener
Very helpful and understanding
good llistener cateful nicr heaty
it was a good chat, the listener talked with me for a bit, and sometimes you need just this
Good to chat with
Nice to talk with
She listens amazing and give good tips
True pro, takes time to think and respond. Helps you generate the awnsers.
She is very supportive and not at all judging. She's the best person I've spoken to yet and I feel very comfortable opening up to her I feel like she had helped already.
gentle Sun is friendly and helpful.
very good and understanding each other well
A great person to talk to with a lot of empathy.
I feel better and more relieved than before he was helpful and nice
He helped me
Very empathetic and supportive :)
Stay care and loveurself :)
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Questions Answered
Why keep living, what's the use?
August 30th, 2020 6:44am
Why do I wake up thinking about my ex?
January 24th, 2020 7:15am
I have a good life why am I not happy?
May 22nd, 2019 6:56am
Why do people think that I'm depressed to get attention?
February 17th, 2020 7:28am
Can depression be managed without any medication?
January 13th, 2020 7:16am
Are mood journals etc, actually helpful?
March 8th, 2021 7:22am
Is it normal to think about suicide everyday?
January 20th, 2021 11:28am
Why can I hardly ever realise how amazing my life is?
September 3rd, 2019 8:50am
How to talk to a therapist without your parents knowing?
January 10th, 2020 12:51pm
How to deal with depression fallout?
October 24th, 2019 8:40am
How can I tell my parents that I think I'm depressed?
September 4th, 2020 7:04am
How do I keep myself from getting to attached to people?
July 26th, 2020 6:42pm
Is it normal to not want to get better?
February 12th, 2020 1:49pm
How to get things done professionaly at work when I'm very depressed?
March 26th, 2021 9:34am
I can't get angry at the people I care about, is there something wrong with me?
December 25th, 2019 7:59am
How do I know if I'm overreacting?
May 12th, 2021 9:24am
I have never felt so sad in my life. Why do I feel this way?
July 18th, 2019 8:53am
Why am I so emotional right now?
October 19th, 2018 7:21am
Why is it so important to share your feelings?
August 28th, 2020 5:38am
What can i do when i am triggered?
November 16th, 2020 7:02am
What are triggers and how do I know if I have one?
January 22nd, 2020 9:39am
Am I depressed or just sensitive?
July 25th, 2019 12:19pm
Why do I feel worse after crying?
July 25th, 2019 12:29pm
Why are my emotions almost impossible to control?
February 8th, 2021 7:52am
I am unemployed and depressed, how can I stop depression from affecting my job search?
March 22nd, 2019 6:53am
I am worried about losing my job, what can I do?
September 4th, 2020 7:12am
What should I do if I can't get a job?
February 7th, 2022 8:52am
Why do I feel so empty and unfulfilled in my profession? How do I overcome this?
November 15th, 2019 12:49pm
Does bullying only happens in school? Or are there other types of bullying?
November 16th, 2020 6:54am
Everyone in school thinks I am bitter. How can I change their minds?
July 25th, 2019 12:21pm
Why so my friends always make fun of me?
July 15th, 2019 12:07pm
what do "normal" people eat?
November 10th, 2020 7:45am
Is there a midpoint between normal eating and anorexia?
September 15th, 2020 2:35pm
How can i control my food intake in healthy amounts?
May 28th, 2019 6:34am
Is it possible to have a binge eating disorder but still be skinny?
January 17th, 2020 9:39pm
Is skinny always considered a compliment?
January 24th, 2020 7:11am
How can I get my therapist to understand that my disordered eating is not a diet?
October 19th, 2020 9:08am
How can I stop hating myself every time I eat?
January 28th, 2020 8:09am
What has worked for you when dealing with a panic attack?
July 6th, 2020 7:44am
Is it normal to feel like my chest is burning?
May 26th, 2020 3:13pm
Does everyone have panic attacks in the same way? Are panic attacks different for everyone?
January 27th, 2020 12:03pm
How can I get over my anxiety or fear of flying on airplanes?
May 29th, 2018 6:12am
How can I make (insert loved one here) proud?
January 27th, 2020 12:07pm
Why can't I deal with everyday situations calmly?
September 1st, 2020 11:25am
Is this really OCD or am I just over-thinking?
March 8th, 2021 7:27am
Why am I so shy around big crowds, but when I'm with one friend than I'm fine?
May 28th, 2020 5:17am
Why do anxious feelings create the need to go to toilet frequently?
December 15th, 2019 3:58pm
Why do I always fail even when I try my hardest?
March 20th, 2021 12:20pm
Is it normal to feel more anxious when you're alone?
October 24th, 2019 8:31am
Why can't I talk easily in front of my class?
March 20th, 2021 11:34am
How to stop overthinking things in a relationship?
April 16th, 2018 8:53am
Why am I so nervous for no reason?
November 19th, 2020 11:38am
What does it mean when you get nervous for no reason?
May 28th, 2020 6:06am
How can I overcome anxiety if I can't talk to a therapist or my own doctor?
January 22nd, 2020 7:06am
Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?
November 15th, 2019 12:55pm
Why do some wounds turn purple?
March 20th, 2021 12:26pm
What will people think if they see my scars?
February 4th, 2020 11:37am
What is the best way to deal with a situation when you find yourself triggered?
June 2nd, 2020 9:52am
What do you do when self harming doesn't work no more?
October 19th, 2020 12:57pm
My self harm scars hurt when I’m angry, upset, stressed or would have self harmed, why?
December 14th, 2020 6:44pm
Will I ever stop cutting myself. I have been doing it since I was 12 and I’m 19 and can’tstop not wanting. to do it?
February 3rd, 2020 6:59am
What can I do to calm my mind at night so I can get to sleep?
August 6th, 2019 4:54pm
How much sleep should I get daily?
July 25th, 2019 12:24pm
At what point does sleep deprivation become a problem?
May 28th, 2020 6:00am
Is it my fault or not?
November 23rd, 2020 8:50am
Do rebound relationships ever work?
July 4th, 2019 2:54pm
How can I forget about the bad memories of my past?
May 22nd, 2019 6:49am
What can I do if my ex starts threatening me he'll hurt himself if we don't get back together but I don't want to get back with them?
April 16th, 2018 9:02am
How can I stop thinking about him/her? Why my heart hurts so much?
September 30th, 2018 8:49am
Why can't I learn to open up to people?
July 18th, 2019 8:58am
Why do I always say things I don't mean?
January 16th, 2022 10:09am
Why is it so hard to talk to an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
October 9th, 2020 10:39am
What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
November 1st, 2019 9:30am
Why does my girlfriend hate me all of a sudden?
September 11th, 2020 11:53am
How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)
January 22nd, 2020 6:55am
I love two different people. What should I do?
March 20th, 2021 12:16pm
Why did It take her to breakup with me before I realized how badly I was treating her?
January 8th, 2019 7:24am
Marijuana is a drug, but is smoking it recreationally considered drug abuse. With it being legalized, I dunno whether marijuana should be considered bad or good?
September 15th, 2020 5:52pm
Why am I not good enough for my parents?
January 20th, 2018 9:33pm
Why am I not good enough for my family?
January 21st, 2020 7:14am
How do you stop yourself from yelling at a parent if they're yelling in your face?
September 1st, 2020 7:40am
How can I tell if my mother in law likes me?
January 15th, 2020 7:52am
How do I know if my friend has postpartum depression?
November 19th, 2020 8:59am
How to stop hating your mother?
February 1st, 2020 6:48pm
What age is too young to leave home?
November 6th, 2019 3:28pm
My father is having an extramarital affair. Part of me wants to end my relationship with him for cheating on my mom, but i worry that he will be depressed as he loves me a lot. How do I deal with this situation?
November 11th, 2020 1:12pm
How do I tell my parents that I want to marry someone of a different religion that I met online?
April 16th, 2018 8:59am
I'm sad because I feel insecure and I always feel like my family is just waiting for me to mess up. lt makes me feel so stupid. How do I stand this?
April 16th, 2018 8:50am
Should I go to the hospital for unhealthy eating habits?
July 18th, 2019 8:35am
How much exercise is too much?
January 24th, 2020 7:19am
Why is exercise important for me?
January 22nd, 2020 9:33am
Why do I feel like I can't get past the bad things that have happened to me?
January 21st, 2020 8:11am
I've not been able to cry for a very long time, and I really need to. Is there a method to induce crying and letting it all out ?
February 9th, 2020 5:07pm
After you lose your best friend, how do you know when grieving them starts?
February 7th, 2020 12:58pm
What is the difference between Perfectionism and OCD?
January 24th, 2020 7:07am
My OCD doesn't seem to fit the stereotypes. Are there different types of OCD?
January 10th, 2020 1:07pm
How not to sound weird when talking to authority?
May 19th, 2020 12:50pm
Sometimes I hear a voice in my head that tells me negative things like everyone hates me or I should kill myself. What should I do?
February 7th, 2020 1:05pm
What does it mean when you feel lonely all the time?
July 18th, 2019 8:48am
What is the difference between isolation and loneliness?
June 26th, 2020 8:09am
How can I make new friends?
March 18th, 2019 8:55pm
What should I do if I can't get into medical school?
May 24th, 2020 8:46pm
Do I have to go to university to become successful?
July 20th, 2020 11:27am
What will you do if you suddenly lost interest in your study?
October 6th, 2020 11:41am
I've witnessed a crime, how can I handle this situation safely?
September 1st, 2020 8:45am
Why does the same situation affect me and not others?
June 26th, 2020 8:17am
How can I stop thinking about my mistakes?
April 16th, 2018 8:47am
How do you avoid hurting a persons feelings when they are disable?
February 4th, 2020 11:28am
How to accept that I am deaf/ have a hearing loss?
January 20th, 2018 9:36pm
Would you date someone with a disability?
October 3rd, 2019 5:55am
How do you tell your friend that you disagree with them without hurting their feelings?
December 10th, 2020 7:09am
My friend cheated on his girlfriend with me. What should I do?
September 29th, 2020 7:43am
Once someone has been diagnosed with a mental illness, will they ever get better?
August 31st, 2020 5:55am