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...See more Good evening everyone..hope all are well...I'm new on here ..my first post. Anyway..my fiance and I have been together for 7 years but we've known each other for 17 ..we both were a support to one another during our very toxic and traumatic marriages ..by traumatic I mean my ex is in prison for 21 years and his ex is seriously mentally ill to the point of intitutionalized...3 years after our marriages imploded we got together ..we needed each other ...he had 8 kids and I had 4.. Most are grown now ..we have 4 teenager and we have one. 5 year old together ... We have a 16 year difference in age btw..He is a lovely and wonderfully intelligent man but when I try to express my hurt feelings over situations ..he has a way of making me feel 2 feet tall..like he can't get down to my level so to speak to even try to understand me.. I'm not an overly emotional person neither do I share easily so when I bring up a situation it is serious to me ...He doesn't realize or seem to put much value on being understood or understanding others..not that he doesn't care he just sees things from one sided perspective..the problem is that I am left resolve them personally by readjusting myself so I am not burdened by them daily I can and have lived like this for while but.... I am comfortable but don't feel connected

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