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Relationship Stress / by gingergoober
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 March 7th, 2025
...See more I had a lot of sexual and narcissistic abuse from two past marriages. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 going on 5 years now. He is 40 and I am 34. Between healing from my Trauma, then a TBI from a car accident, our relationship has been crazy these past 4 years. He wants to wait for marriage till we can finally take a breath and have some down time without chaos in our relationship. That makes logical sense and all, but, I still feel hurt that he's not ready. It's hard for me not to take it personally. All of my trauma makes me feel that I'm not good enough, or that i have to be "healed" before he will marry me, or that he is stringing me along, or why I'm even in a relationship to begin with feeling all of this pain...... I would love to hear from anyone who knows what I mean, or would have any advice on what to do to get past this? Thank you so much for reading, and God bless.
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