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goldenPine6254
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts13 Forum posts3 Forum upvotes1 Current upvotes1 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2022 Member sinceSeptember 25, 2022
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Relationship Stress / by goldenPine6254
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 September 26th, 2022
...See more I used to have a crush on my boyfriends brother. I never acted on those feelings because he had a girlfriend so I never flirted with him, only kept it a casual conversation between really good friends. Then I met his brother (my current boyfriend) about a year later. I started hanging out with my current boyfriend & ended up liking him & wanted to give our relationship a shot so we started dating. I am still friends with his brother because we’re still good friends. We’ve been dating 7 months so far. We broke up once for like 2 hours. I had told his brother about the break up & were really close so I can tell him everything, he’s like family to me. I told him how I used to have a small crush on him because I thought it was funny etc. I didn’t tell him that because I was trying to get with him since I was single during that time. I told him as a friend & then an hour or so later, I got back together with my current boyfriend. Now I don’t know if I should tell him that I used to like his brother. Personally, for me, I don’t think it’s such a big deal because I never acted a certain way towards my boyfriends brother. I never did anything with him & was only ever a friend to him. But my conscience is eating me alive & my anxiety/overthinking is taking a toll on me. idk if I’m just straight up overthinking or what I should do.
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Relationship Stress / by goldenPine6254
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 September 25th, 2022
...See more I am in a relationship, have been for about 7 months. He has trust issues. We have agreed to work through them. I have not cheated on him but I do talk to my guy friends about our relationship issues because I can’t be at home alone with these negative thoughts in my head because I have anxiety myself. And I need to vent to people I know & trust. Some of these guys are my exes & my boyfriend doesn’t like that I talk to my exes still & are still friends with them. He would ask about what I would say & I’ll lie to him about it because I don’t want him upset with what I say. I don’t talk bad about him, I’m just venting about how I feel with certain things & I just feel very horrible about lying. I don’t know what else to do. I know I didn’t do anything wrong but I just hate the feeling of lying. But I know I didn’t cheat on him.
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