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Trauma Support / by goldfinch97
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 July 14th, 2020
...See more Please be honest, please don't lie, I've been told this wasn't assault and I really want to know if it is or not. I was seventeen years old at a family party. I sat down next to my older cousin who was probably 28 years old at the time. She was drunk. I don't remember when she put her hand on my thigh but I realized she was rubbing it up and down. I started to get uncomfortable and when I looked at her, she kissed me on the mouth. I froze. She pulled away and said in Spanish, te quiero, which either means I love you or I want you. I looked away, I was shocked, and her head rested on my shoulder. Her hand was still rubbing my thigh and I thought I imagined her hand getting higher. I stood up, and when I stood up, her hand traveled to the back of my thigh and then proceeded to go between my legs and up my butt crack, over my clothing. It was one swift motion. I was able to walk away from her, and I haven't spoken to her since. I don't know what to call this but I never wanted it to happen.
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