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goodSugar5731
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Am I obsessed? How do I forget her?
Relationship Stress / by goodSugar5731
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 July 26th, 2020
...See more I knew this girl last summer. We worked together so I used to see her almost every day. We had a strange relation: it was clear that there was something between us, but didn't end up well. Working was very stressful for me, so I finished shifting my frustration and anger to her. At the end of the summer, I apologised to her, saying that I had a problem with depression, which of course wasn't true... My feeling was that I lost the opportunity to be together with her and to have the first serious relationship of my life (I'm 21), but didn't happen. For the following months, after the end of the summer and the end of our seasonal job, we haven't been even messaging. Though, I've been really sad and alone during the winter, I've been thinking a lot about her, hoping we'd work together again the following summer. So here I am. I started working with her a pair of weeks ago. I am aware she is on her way: she went abroad for 8 months with the college and I imagine she hanged out, she met new people, she even is in a relationship. But on the other hand, I've got stuck her in my mind. I dream about her, I constantly think about her, or, for example, when we work the same shift, I focus unconsciously to my appearance. I started thinking I must forget her. I hanged out or chatted with some girls, but my mind gets back over and over to her. I am pretty sure I am obsessed with her, BUT I can't find a way to get out of it. And that is basically my "relationship" problem.
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