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hardworkingLime4747
14,208 M Progress Road
PathStep 5 Compassion hearts213 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes2 Current upvotes2 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2022 Member sinceOctober 4, 2017
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Relationship Stress / by hardworkingLime4747
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 November 4th, 2019
...See more I dont understand why someone would pursue me for 8 months and when I ask them to put more effort, they leave because Im changing them. Its frustrating because my love language is someone asking me out on a date, cute small gifts like just a letter would be enough for me and he never understood that because he said for him it was enough to know Im his. We have a history of getting back together because he would leave either he didnt have time or because of a guy friend (who I knew before him) I was determined not to get back with him because I was tired, during the 8 months I told him I was talking to someone new and it surprised me he still wanted to talk to me because hes a very jealous person. Seeing him still chase me after telling him that made me go back and try again. I know people cant change in a short time but I genuinely really believed this time it would be different considering how much time had passed. A day after the break up, he messaged me Bc he assumed I would be at the hospital and we were talking and he wanted to end on good terms, I was but then I decided not to because when I wanted to, he called me a coward for wanting to leave. He said I was a coward for leaving. He made me take the train at night because he didnt want to drive. It was my fault for thinking this was normal and how anyone wouldve done it.
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Why do I feel this way?
Relationship Stress / by hardworkingLime4747
Last post
 April 11th, 2019
...See more Im upset because Ive given so many chances for someone whos broken up with me so many times and didnt do much for our relationship. Hes going out, while Im in my room, getting sadder and listening to sad music to even feel shittier. I dont understand why I feel like this when Ive done so much. And he puts the blame on me. I dont want to be controlled. Im too young to feel trapped.
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