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haretan
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im losing all motivation i just want summer break already
Depression Support / by haretan
Last post
 April 23rd
...See more i can't get through these school days. i feel so drained, i show up everyday, i get A honor roll, im doing extracurriculars. all of it is so overwhelming. i dont know how to get through these days. i talk to my friends but recently ive gone quieter. i just want this year to end. the anticipation for summer break is getting to me, im losing my drive. theres so much to do i just wanna curl up and cry. i dont hate school, i just hate this cycle and the fact im here until 4:20. i dont get home until like 6-9pm most days i'm going insane. theres no one i can talk to at home. i have my friends but theyre going through their own *** i dont want to add on to their plate.  i'm just so tired. i want a break. weekends arent enough.
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There's a friend I want to get closer to, him and his group. But I'm so anxious
Friendship Support / by haretan
Last post
 October 30th, 2025
...See more I wonder: what if he thinks I'm annoying? He's a busy guy, like me. We have so much in common, same humor, same extracurricular (orchestra), and our overall beliefs and values align well. He's a really cool dude, and I see him with his friend group, and I think that they all are so cool Here's the thing, though. I message him a good amount, probably a convo every other day or so on average. But I always start them, and while he vibes along really well, I just wonder if I annoy him by texting first? And the thing is, while I talk to his other friend group, I don't have their contact info so it's mainly him and I'm scared they'll think "who is this rando trying to talk with us." I just think they all are so nice and we'd get along well, but Im so worried, idk how to get myself closer to their group but I want to try. I'm scared, but I want to ask if I can sit with him and his friend group at lunch, maybe message him? The thing is I'm an outgoing person, I can talk to almost anyone, I know a lot of people.. but I still get so anxious when it comes to people I admire. Should I ask him? How do I message him asking??? How do I not be awkward I'm outgoing, yet so awkward at the same time. I hate this feeling. 
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