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hazyinthesky
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I don't understand him and don't know what to do
Relationship Stress / by hazyinthesky
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 December 13th, 2022
...See more Hi friends, I ve been with my person for about 4 months. I live in Germany he lives in the States. After i visited him in October things got complicated, he started to say that he wants to figure himself out, doesn't want to date anyone and so on.. Now he is in Germany, we ve been hanging out and were doing great actually. Had a lot of talks trying to understand each other, did many stuff we wanted to do together; it has been just great really. Recently he told me that he is confused, has feelings for me but one part of him still wants to see other people. Now knowing how he treats me I am very confused as well what is it that isn't enough in our relationship. I care about him as a person too. I don't think I can have him in a open relationship, I love him too much to be able to share but I am also not willing to remove him from my life. But what can I do? It would hurt me so much knowing that he goes on dates, but it hurts me much more not knowing how he is doing. It is just very confusing overall. We are not together, we are not single. We are single together, i guess.. Just wanted to let it out, don't have anyone to listen me, i guess that makes the whole thing harder..
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