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helloThinker403
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Partner struggles with BPD
Relationship Stress / by helloThinker403
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 June 24th, 2022
...See more I am talking to someone who uses "you" statements instead of "i" statements and expressing his feelings in a way that owns how he feels. He instead somehow misperceives the current reality of a situation and blames, accuses and judges me during conversation. I frequently interrupt these "you" statements and ask him to personalize his statements and also remind him of what actually happened and he blasts into rage fits telling me I don't respect him for not allowing him to cross a line/limit and boundary that I repeatedly try to put in place. Im starting to feel crazy. how do I keep the boundary and when it’s broken how do I redirect? do I just sit and wait until he finishes these extreme perceptive thought patterns?
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