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helpfulLion7513
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Am I a fool?
Relationship Stress / by helpfulLion7513
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 May 22nd, 2021
...See more So the situation itself isn't the best. I regret it even happening but a part of me is still longing for more. I work in a small business for a while (5 years) and all who work there we are like family especially me and my boss who I consider my "work husband". At this point we are good friends who happen to be also working together. I support him so much and I know as a boss he can't show favoritism openly but its obvious. Well as of recently things have gotten flirty between us. I've always found him attractive with a crush on jom and him flirting with me has thrown me off and yet felt like a fantasy come true. A couple of nights we spent late at work after hours between us things got a bit more steamy between us. One night got very intimate but we kept being to shy to continue because it was wrong. But things got physical and now he told me that it needed to stop. But now he treats me horrible. I feel used like he just need his ego stroked. He won't even let me talk about what happened and how I feel about him using me for his benefit. I don't know what to do I want to confront him. I'm angry. I hate him yet I still care for him. Why is he like this? Why can he pretend nothing happened and then treat me bad when I've done nothing but give and give to him both work and intimately? A detail I meant to add was he is currently married but he is getting separated so again I feel used like a toy to him. I didn't want to but again him wanting me my feelings of him being my crush took over and now I regret it. At times I still feel like he wants more with me but other times I feel he just got his rocks off and now tossed me aside.
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