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Relationship Stress / by hiimbi
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 June 4th, 2020
...See more This is my first post on this app, so I'm not completely sure what I'm doing but here goes. I am a female and my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We have had our fair share of ups and downs. From the start bad things happened. I basically cheated on my ex boyfriend, which I regret entirely. My ex and I had been together for over 3 years. He would tell me that my new boyfriend manipulated me and I wish I would have listened. There are so many red flags that I should've seen that I was blind to. For starters, here are some: He always tells me he would k*ll himself if we broke up. He is controlling and has made me stop being friends with some people. He doesn't trust me and constantly accuses me of cheating on him (I haven't). He gets mad at me for things I didn't do. He doesn't listen to me when we're arguing, and we argue almost every single day. He yells at me and makes insensitive jokes towards me that I have kindly asked him to stop making. I'm not able to go to college because he doesn't want me to leave him. There are plenty more things but I think you get it. I want to break up with him and our friend group thinks I should too because he's very toxic towards all of us. Its just very hard because I don't know who I am outside of a relationship. My mental health is deteriorating and I can't do this anymore. I don't want to hurt him but I don't know how to break things off. Please help if you can. What should I do?
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