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...See more my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We fight often. He always complains that I’m inconsiderate. My parents sometimes makes plans last minute. And usually I would try to go. He would get mad if I brought it up last minute or if I said I’d like to go. Because then if if didnt go, it would look like his fault. So I tried to ask them to plan ahead and I even skipped some cause I didn’t want to fight. He complains about me interrupting him, which I’ve been trying to work on. I feel like I’ve made progress on the inconsideration, but he’d say otherwise. I have my fair share of issues with him. In the past, I’d shrug it off cause I didn’t think it was worth fighting over. Maybe that was the wrong thing to do, I don’t know. For starters, he makes jokes that aren’t very funny. Like sexual jokes about banging a coworker. And it’s just jokes. That’s what he does he says. And when we first started dating, it wasn’t a big deal cause it wasn’t very often, but not it’s constant. And I’ve brought it up in the past that I don’t like it but he says it’s a part of him. He’s stated he’d never actually sleep with her. But still it’s irritating. Another thing he does that annoys me is he calls me the b word sometimes. He says it’s jokes and out of love. He says his love language is “bullying” or jokes. I let it go for a while then eventually brought it up. When I did, he said, you didn’t have a problem with it before, so why now. I explained I did. And sometimes when I’m trying to talk about something serious like I have a headache Or explaining why he had to wait for me to get done with work he makes a face and mocks me. Hes also very flirty when he talks to most people. He said he’d draw it back but I am not sure he will. And I don’t know if I’m out of line for asking him not to be flirty with other. He is nice to me other than those times and does things for me/buys me stuff. I don’t know if I’m just over analyzing it ir not. I feel like that’s not how it should be but I don’t know. I still love him and don’t really want to break up with him but I hate feeling this way.

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