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...See more Hi guys this is my first time trying this, I didn’t know who to talk to I have anxiety and was seeing a therapist but we weren’t a good fit so I haven’t seen someone for over a year now. I was going pretty well for a while but now it’s all caught up with me and I realise I was pushing a lot of things down. A lot of my anxiety is because of issues with having new friends and my old ones disapproving of how I’ve changed as a person. I feel more comfortable with myself now that I have new friends, but I also feel a lot of guilt from not talking to my old friends as much. Also having relationship issues at the moment. I just found out that both my exes got their now girlfriends pregnant and then left them so that was a lot to process. I have been in a couple really toxic relationships so I hadn’t talked to anyone in a while. I recently met a guy who my friend set me up with. Things were going really well when we met the first time and we started talking after that night. It made me realise that I hadn’t talked to someone in ages and I kinda forgot how to. This guy is very sweet and a genuinely good guy, he has a good reputation too. I just found myself getting very scared to talk to him. I do really like him and we get along well, but I constantly leave him on delivered for long periods of time because I get scared that I won’t have anything interesting enough to say. It’s been over a month now since I met him and we haven’t messaged in over a week. Because I get bad at replying and he loses interest. I’m not sure if I’m pushing him away because I’m scared or if we’re just not compatible .

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