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...See more My bf of 3 years confessed that he isn’t sure if he loves me romantically anymore. I’ve known something was off for a while now but it’s still devastating for me. He said he needs a break to figure out where his feelings stand. I suggested a week or two, but said it would be longer. He couldn’t give me a timeline but from what I gathered, anywhere from 1-6 months. During this time he said he doesn’t expect me to wait for him because he knows that would be unfair. I know that many relationships don’t survive breaks, and that they’re just excuses when someone isn’t brave enough to actually break up, but I truly believe he’s confused and that is why he suggested a break instead of a break up. I love him so much. This is the person I genuinely thought was the one, and I’m not a hopeless romantic type of person. I know relationships go through trials and I so want to believe this is one of them and that we will come out stronger but I also know that I can’t be giving myself false hope. I don’t know how long this is going to last. I’m just assuming he will let me know when he knows either way. But I’m so heartbroken and I can’t describe how much I wish for us to be where we were a few months ago, when we were so in love and happy. How do I get through this? I can’t help that I’m just hoping for him to come back so should I convince myself it’s fully over?

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