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User Profile: hunterlee
hunterlee July 16th, 2023

I’ve been with my current bf for about 3 months and I do really like him, but I feel like he doesn’t prioritize me. We see each other 1-2 times a week and maybe I’m being unrealistic but it doesn’t feel like enough for me. I told him I wanted to see him more than once a week and then it became twice. But I still don’t feel that connection. I don’t want to be hasty and breakup, but I don’t know what to tell him without sounding needy. It’s still so early in the relationship so I don’t know if im just being unrealistic?

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User Profile: Allyibanez
Allyibanez July 16th, 2023

I’m sorta In the same boat … I really like him too. I expressed how I felt to him and he understood however he did say he’s just busy with other things but we are also long distance so 1-2 days a week makes sense to us and I’m okay with it . I think communicating with him on how you feel and then see what he says . I don’t think your being un realistic your just voicing your needs and that’s important.. I feel that is not asking for too much and it’s important to voice it in the beginning so he knows. I think what may be missing might be that emotional connection . I feel the same too… I really like him but i feel there some depth missing