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independentTalker313
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I'm so tired I wanna let him go
Relationship Stress / by independentTalker313
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 May 19th, 2021
...See more I'm in a relationship with a guy 8years older than me. We've been together for a year. We met during covid so since the start of our r.s it was a bit rocky. We had lockdowns. We didn't have chance to do normal activities like usual couples. Now our country political situation is really bad. And the effect is everybody going out of business and stuff. It's been 4 months since we went through big political changes. During that time I lost all my friends due to picking political side and misunderstanding. I'm also going under pay cut. But still I'm managing. Despite me losing all my friends, all my network and social media appearance due to cyber bulling, the one acting like he got more problem than me is my bf. He is not going through under any pay cut he still have his friends he has the will to go out anytime he wants and yet he is fussing about his business going through a lost. When I mean his business, it is not even his money. It is owned by his uncle and he is just managing it and getting paid salary. So I don’t understand his problem. It is not even his own money and everyday he act like he is going through his mid life crisis. The effect is he doesn’t care about me anymore. We don’t talk. We don’t meet yet we are still in a relationship. I keep holding on for him to become normal but I get sick of seeing him like this. I do understand all relationships has ups and down. And I should be by his side when he is going through his lowest. But this is also my lowest. I’ve been seeing a councilor because even my bf won’t listen to me or be there for me. So why do I have to be there for him. I am a girl and I am managing my life way better than he is. He is 8 years older, unaccomplished, emotionally distant and doesn’t deserve me at all. I just want to tell him what I have on my mind like this. But my heart is so soft that I am not able to tell him these. I am not able to confront him. And everyday it is putting me in my misery. I just want to confront him big time. Knock some sense into him and break up if I need to (even tho it might lead to my heartbreak since I love him a lot) How do you manage with emotionally distant guys? How do you manage with people who need you to be there but who are not there for you. I am so tired.
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Lonely girl with too many thoughts
General Support / by independentTalker313
Last post
 September 19th, 2021
...See more Hi. I’m Elle. Lately I don’t feel like I belong anywhere. I just went through cyber bullying. I have lost all my friendships that I have built for the past 25years and now on the edge of breakup (or not. I’m still confused). I have too many thoughts all day and night without having anyone to talk to. I find it hard to just go and chat with someone and tell him/her all about my issues. I’m afraid if I pick out someone they might not relate with me. I don’t really know what I’m looking for tho. I think I just wanna be heard and if there is another perspective that I cannot see right now, I’d like to be pointed out...
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