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indigoAcai8963
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Relationship Stress / by indigoAcai8963
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 October 10th, 2021
...See more I am pregnant in 14 weeks. I had broken up with the father of the child about a month and half ago. We tried one more time to get back together during this time, but I simply didn't feel like I want him next to me. I am rather bummed out since then. Entered in sort of depressed mood, not in the mood for any activities, even not caring about work anymore. The whole relationship was a mess, he was rude with me, starting to insult me and cursed all the time. I also kept on borrowing him lots of money for all kind of problems he had. I feel angry towards him. I got pregnant after only 1 month of relationship, because he refused to use protection. He still wants to get back together but I simply don't trust him, he said so many strange things, like I'd better make an abortion if I choose to raise the child with some other man that won't love the child or that he will beat the crap out of any guy I date. I think he is so immature. He was accusing me that I am cheating him because I decided to keep him on mute to stop being interrupted by his messages at work or when I am not feeling like that talking. He actually was using a phone subscription that I paid and I observed that you can see all the calls from the account, and while we were separated he did call other women, so I find it so hypocrite to blame me for cheating when he's talking with othet women. At the same time, I hate him and I miss him. This is what baffles me the most. Somehow I have to stay connected with him because he still owes me money, but I think I am vulnerable when I meet him and I am afraid of the bad influence he can have on the child. I considered many times to keep him away from my pregnancy and later on from the child. What do you think I should do?
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