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...See more So about 3 months ago I find out my daughter of 21 years now, was sexually abused by a younger cousin of my husband her stepdad of 17 years , when she was 15. I was angry & hurt for her I felt like trash as parents for being unable to protect her.. im crushed as a mom... After talking with my daughter and finding this out I of course turned to my husband Let him know... I don't get a huge response.. He proceeds not to really talk about it to me for the best next day or 2... My daughter comes over again which I go out front to talk with her and I told him to come he does not.... When I go back in later to ask him why because she is gone and he knew we were going to talk about things He acted like he didn't know I was telling him to come out front... So we began to talk about things on my back porch and one of the 1st Things he tells me Finally Is do you think it's her fault Is it possible she led him on? And how he's worried about how this is going to affect his family.. I did explode with anger at the fact his 1st thought was to defend his own family... And not my daughter... Nothing he says to me makes sense.... My feelings have changed towards him I feel like hes not somebody I can look to 4 protection ..I feel left alone about dealing with everything for the month 1/2 after ..talking to investigators... he don't talk to me... He's a very quiet person. I d He did say he loves me he dont want to part but.. I feel like I'm just going through the motions Day-to-day to be a good mom to my other kids.. when i try to talk im basically left talking to myself.....then im left for day go over things in my own brain..which is never a good thing...i feel lost..i love him but more like a family member.. i dont want to touch him....i cant change my feelings what the hells wrong with me... Too much ....

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