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indigoTree6621
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My mom and husband hate each other and it’s affecting our relatuonship
Relationship Stress / by indigoTree6621
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 June 10th, 2021
...See more My husband and my mother have never gotten along. They both have narcissistic tendencies and have controlling, stubborn personalities. A week and a half ago we were all on vacation and they got into a huge argument with screaming and swearing and my husband, kids, and I had to leave a day early. Now neither of them will admit fault and they won’t even be in the same room together, much less talk. I have tried to talk to both. My mother brushes it off and says she can be civil but refuses to accept any responsibility and keeps talking about pushing him out of her life but not me or the kids. Every time I bring it up to my husband, he blames it all on her, and calls her names and when I try to express my opinion and how I feel about the situation he starts a fight and says I don’t understand what he’s going through and basically makes me feel like my feelings are wrong or not valid. This whole situation has caused me to go into a depression and it’s not only affecting my relationships with them but o feel like I’m not being an attentive mom to my kids. I want to stop fighting with him and for him and my mom to learn to be civil. What should I do?
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