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intellectualWalker4381
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Learning to Love
Relationship Stress / by intellectualWalker4381
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 January 17th
...See more Geeeeeeez. So we’ve been extremely sick, then we had a HUGE….come to Jesus moment(not an argument but an unveiling if you will) where we had to unearth and acknowledge some hard truths. And now it’s up to be to setup a meeting where we can be intimate. But the problem is I don’t feel….turned on. I don’t feel like being intimate. My cycle starts next week and by that point it will be a whole month since we’ve been intimate. Im having anxiety about trying to reconcile and fix things because he already feels undesired by me. And feels like if he doesn’t initiate we won’t ever be intimate. I don’t want him to feel like that but with the month we’ve had I’m just….uninterested. I really just don’t wanna be bothered with anything. I barely feel like interacting. But I feel so selfish. Any tips and tricks? Any suggestions? How do I get my groove back and out of my head?
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Give it up for day 3!
General Support / by intellectualWalker4381
Last post
 January 14th
...See more I’m in…purgatory I guess. A weird gray area with my boyfriend that of course I’m trying to convince/remind myself isn’t my fault although it feels like punishment. I’m in a headspace of just wanting time to fast forward so I can just get to the point where the shoe drops. Obsessively checking my dry phone? Yes. Laying in bed trying to sleep but failing? Yes. No appetite but having to force myself to feed myself? Absolutely.
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