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intellectualYard5693
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Parents fighting for years disrespectfully, we kids unable to control them, asked them to separate but they are not willing
Family & Caregivers / by intellectualYard5693
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 July 12th, 2021
...See more Our parents had been fighting ever since their marriage and things have now become so bad that they fight very badly infront of us kids everytime. We are not able to intervene or control them in the thought that we may disrespect them. But yesterday it all went out of our hands and I intervened and shouted so badly so that they got convinced about what was happening for these years. My father doesnt my mothers food and always kept complaining it. My mother hates my father going out freely because he limited her travelling even to her sister's home. My mother also has trust issues with my father. I asked them if they were really willing to live together they said no just like that. Then I asked them to separate because they was no point in living like this. They are indirectly affecting our mental health by bringing their stupid little fights infront of us. I also called for them a family counselor but they said now they are ready to adjust with what life is giving and they dont anybody to intervene in their matters. But their fights are still going to be the same. I really dont know what I can do to make them understand the point that there is no point in living a meaningless life without trust, respect and love. In the end now they blame me for intervening and shouting out all the truths that they hid to speak out Kindly tell me what I can do to help my family out. Any opinions will be respected. It may help us kids if God wills..... I will be really thankful for all the opinions.
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