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Relationship Stress / by intelligentCar2417
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February 3rd, 2025
...See more I'm a 30 year old Indian woman living in Europe for the past four years. I moved to Germany recently and been having a hard time dating German men. All the dates I've been on have been great. The men pay for the dates always which is something that doesn't happen in Germany often, they open doors and be all gentlemanly. They love talking to me and my dates have been hours long sometimes. But they don't lead to anything one way or other.  Recently I matched with this guy who's 23 years old. I usually don't go on dates with guys that young and so was skeptical but he was kind and gentle and when we met we actually had a good time. We spent six hours together and he came and waited ay the train station to send me off. We met day before yesterday, I took him to an indian restaurant and despite silly me leaving my purse at home, he paid for the food and took me to a brewery after too. I felt comfortable with him, we waited at the train station for me again. I went to his city twice which is half an hour from my city and since he said he hasnt been to my city, I asked him he could come here next time and it would be my treat since he paid for me all these times and I haven't heard from him  he did text me last week before we made plans that he will be busy this weekend but still just confirming plans wouldn't take so long isn't it? Or am I being paranoid? 😅
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