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How bad did i mess up? was it a normal reaction? is this truly 'unforgivable' as my bf/ex says?
Relationship Stress / by intuitivePineapple7409
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 April 21st, 2025
...See more Hey,  I don't know if this is the right space but recently I made a mistake in my relationship as my bf was very distant and reacted in an unsupportive manner to a rejection i face, i was talking to a friend and being young and naive allowed them to text my bf instead of talking to my bf directly. My bf was mad and upset and i understood and tried to be honest with him by saying i asked the friend to text, he gave me the silent treatment for 3 weeks after calling me a coward and comparing me to his cheating ex and after 3 weeks then replied telling me this friend of mine has texted him again, i told him i had nothing to do with this and blocked the friend. He also told me some news at this time and i asked and tried to support him . he didn't reply for 2 more weeks and I proceeded to say let's break up if we can't talk abt this, he said whatever and we had a brief convo and he said everything was ok relating to the news he told me.  He then reached out 2 months later and told me something very shocking relating to that news, i was shocked and tried to react and support him the best I could. He didn't like my reaction and blocked me saying he doesn't trust me and I don't care for him. I was panicked and hysterical after hearing this piece of news so i took screenshots of the chat hoping to read over them later. he found out and asked me 'why tf did i take them', i panicked and really wanted to be there for him and was scared if i tell the truth he would give me the silent treatment, yell at me or swear at me again. So i lied saying they were an accident, he ofc didn't believe that and said i was a lying, manipulative, toxic, b*** and many other things, i was trying to convince him of a lie to be there for him and i can see how wrong that is and it makes me very guilty, so i tried to reach out to him again and he told me to f off. 
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