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inventivePeach8079
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PathStep 12 Compassion hearts15 Forum posts3 Forum upvotes4 Current upvotes4 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2023 Member sinceApril 7, 2021
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Relationship Stress
Content Volunteer Team / by inventivePeach8079
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December 1st, 2023
...See more How can you tell when it's worth working on and when it's time to walk away?
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Making a tight decision.....
Relationship Stress / by inventivePeach8079
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September 5th, 2022
...See more How can you tell when a relationship isn't worth repairing anymore?
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Feeling Conflicted
Newbie Hub / by inventivePeach8079
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February 19th, 2022
...See more Hello, I'm pretty new to this app so my first attempt at this may not be great. I've been in a relationship for a little over four years now. We live together and we engaged. About a week or so ago I found out that he had been flirting with a girl online. When I asked him about it he admitted to what he'd done and he apologized saying he'd take care of it and even said he had cut off communication. A couple days ago I had fallen asleep before him and when I woke up I noticed he was texting someone. It was her. I waited till the next day and confronted him about it and he lied about it at first. After I explained to him that I saw it first hand he showed me his messages and they weren't there. Turns out he had them archived on his phone so it wouldn't show like a normal message. He was hiding it. No he says he's working on things and showed me that he had actually cut off communication this time. That said I don't know how to handle the relationship from here. I Know lost will say to leave him which would make sense, but its not quite that easy. I just don't know if I can trust him anymore 🙃. Advice?
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