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i need advice! finally grieving my last relationship
Relationship Stress / by islapearly
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 February 14th, 2025
...See more I would love nothing more than anyone’s advice or opinions. For Context, I broke up with my ex of 5 years mid November and up until last week was confident in my decision. He wasn't a horrible guy, we just felt more like roommates then girlfriend and boyfriend. I'm with someone new now, and they are very good to me. But I can't help but miss my ex all the sudden. I often think if I made the right decision. I think just living alone has been difficult on me as I've never really lived alone up until now. When I'm with my new boyfriend, I'm happy. But when I'm alone, everything gets all depressing and I just wish for it to end. My mind is constantly yelling at me for the sudden and large change i made in my life. I lost all my friends as they were always closer with my ex, I barely see my family as they are never around, and I work 6 days a week to afford living on my own. Not to mention we had a house together and two pets who I miss dearly. I just feel like I made a huge mistake but at the same time, I believe I did the right thing. And now I am starting to regret my new relationship even though he has done literally nothing wrong. I think I jumped ship too soon, and I’m so unsure about everything. I don't know, I just have a lot of feelings.
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