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itsSerene
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Relationship Stress / by itsSerene
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August 7th, 2019
...See more I just got out of a 3 year ldr barely two months ago. I've known the guy for over gen years, we met via an online game. He stopped playing but we kept contact via FB. Hed message maybe once a month, if that, and each time I'd feel so much happiness and joy even with a short conversation. About 4 years ago we talked a lot more and almost everyday. I was honestly and truly happy, and I really liked him. The topic about ldr came up one day and he said he doesnt feel too good about it because last time he got hurt. But one day he confessed he liked me, said I'd be worth it as I would never hurt him, common interests, etc. And it was honest to god the best years of my life, because he was something more to me and my best friend in one. But a year later it started going down hill. I found out I couldnt get to him at the time, and getting the funds/transportion was hard. By the time I was able to ppan things out and visit him it was too late, he had his doubts and he felt there was false hope. Reality hit him and his friends noticed he wasnt happy, he called it off between us to better himself and because he was tired of the distance. But we remained friends. Originally it was the future was uncertain but for the time being he had to do this, but recent events with him moving on with someone else he told me there is no future he didnt want me back in his life in that way as there would still always be distance. I am glad hes already bettering himself, but I am still very much hurting.
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