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Am I creating problems? Am I crazy? Or is he just not telling the truth ?
Relationship Stress / by itsokbuttercup
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 January 31st, 2017
...See more I've been in love with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's everything I ever wanted. Supports me at everything I do and he's always right there behind me. However, lately it hasn't felt like he's there. He works from 6 am to 6 pm. He never texts me good morning anymore, doesn't call me babe or baby, he doesn't text me while he's at lunch, he doesn't even text me while he's out. It's already hard to see each other often so for him to not text me hurts. I wait for him all day to get a call or text but never do. He'll text me when he gets out but then says "I'm going out" or "I'm gonna help my brother out". He goes out with his coworkers so it makes sense that he'll go out right away after his shift ended but the brother one doesn't. If he doesn't text me I'm going to assume he isn't using his phone so when he tells me things like that I feel like he just doesn't want to talk to me during his lunch or break. He's also been close to this other girl. He went to Disneyland with her, he's had dinner with her just them two alone, and he's always talking to her. I ask him repeatedly if there's someone else, if he's lost interest, or if he simply just doesn't want me around. He always denies it and makes me feel like I'm crazy. He changed his passcode on his phone too. Am I crazy ? Am I just making things up in my head ? Or am I connecting the dots and he isn't man enough to tell me the truth after 4 years of being in love with him ?
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