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...See more My wife and I have been going through a rough patch for the last two years. Late last year she hacked my phone and found some communications. I had with a woman communications were friendly and never led to anything. Nevertheless, she was hurt. About a month later, she met a man who was looking for a house. Ultimately this business relationship evolved into something much more personal. I did see some text from him that were asking her to spend time with him over the weekend. She also told me that they had shared personal information about each other‘s families, and I assume their lives. . When I ask her when I ask her about him and ask if he was Ing her and sending her sexually focused messages and if they had been going out on dates, she would either shut me down on the conversation or turn it on me and say I was a cheater. When I asked her to show me her text, she said no initially and then later said she deleted all of them. . When I asked her to show me her text, she said no initially and then later said she deleted all of them. Since then we have been spending more quality time. But when I bring the topic up, she again responds in an aggressive and negative fashion. She then says she can’t live like this and that I have to learn how to deal with my insecurities. but when I bring the topic up, she again responds in an aggressive and negative fashion. She then says she can’t live like this and that I have to learn how to deal with my insecurities. Am I wrong? What do you guys think I should do? Should I reach out to him and have a conversation? How hard do I push this issue with her? What do you guys think I should do? Should I reach out to him and have a conversation? How hard do I push this issue with her? Thanks for listening and offering me your thoughts and recommendations.

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