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BF recorded our fights without me knowing
Relationship Stress / by jesander
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 December 1st, 2024
...See more I need help. My bf and I have been fighting a lot. Its been heading towards toxic territory with our behavior towards each other when upset just getting very hurtful. We decided to work it out and have started couples therapy. We fought today and I found out that he had 5 recordings of our arguments. Including from that today. He did it secretively. this feels very toxic to me. I cant see any reason to do that other than to use it against me later or some type of manipulation. He swears it was only to go back and see what he was doing wrong to work on us. Am I crazy?
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