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jr028
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8yrs down the drain
Relationship Stress / by jr028
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 November 4th, 2024
...See more hello,  im currently in the process of leaving my 8yr on/off relationship for good. i am so incredibly heartbroken because this time he has revealed to me that he's been having sexual affairs with hookers and random women he met online...some meetings were unprotected as well. cheating has always been the number one issue between us and I've grown numb whenever I see he's been messaging other women. i now know how dumb I was to think he wasn't actually meeting up with these women, I chose to believe him that it was all just text/ a fantasy, but to be told he was being unsafe with these women now has made me feel sick to my stomach. we have a 5-year-old together and she adores him so much, my heart hurts whenever I think about our family falling apart. I had never thought of sharing custody of our child before and I'm beyond scared. everyday I have horrible thoughts of him being intimate with others and how he had a fwb for 7 months this year, he was having unsafe sex with her as well. everything is changing so fast and I don't know how to cope with this pain and how to start this co-parenting journey. 
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