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justpeachpie
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new challenges with fiances baby momma moving
Relationship Stress / by justpeachpie
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 June 28th, 2024
...See more my fiance has a 10 yr old boy that has moved 4 hours away from us. due to this my fiance spends one or two nights a week sleeping at his ex girlfriends house... now I know that he is doing this to spend time with his son as often as he can, but it still makes me extremely uncomfortable! When my fiance and I first moved in together I allowed/dealt with his baby momma actually living with us... but that became too uncomfortable after 2 years. unfortunately due to finances she had to move in with her parents which is understandable! But him spending the night there gives me the MOST anxiety. I brought it up to him and the conversation was cut short telling me that if I can't handle him having a baby momma we probably shouldn't be together.... um we've been together for 4 years. I have been very open and agreeable for the most part when it comes to her. I have even paid to include her in family trips to water parks! I was trying to express that this is a very difficult thing to go through for me. I want to set a boundary that he should not touch her during these visits, like a hug. I witnessed them hugging during a drop off of the kid last week and it just made me feel so bad! I realize that this may just be me being insecure but... if he's spending the night there is it reasonable to ask for this? Feeling in my head and have no one to really talk to about this
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