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kindTree9705
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PathStep 64 Compassion hearts11 Forum posts5 Forum upvotes9 Current upvotes9 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2022 Member sinceMarch 30, 2021
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Eating Disorder Support / by kindTree9705
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 August 10th, 2021
...See more So I feel weird even writing here because I’ve never even said out loud that I have an eating disorder, and I’m not entirely sure if I do. I just feel extreme disgust with my body and get anxious any time I eat a lot and then sometimes will avoid eating for a day or skip A meal here and there and i keep obsessively weighing myself and if I see it gained weight it ruins my day. I feel like I am on the brink of this becoming more of an issue. But, I am proud of myself because I’m seeking professional help (via this app) for the first time ever as Of today
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Relationship Stress / by kindTree9705
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 March 31st, 2021
...See more Not sure if anyone saw my last post, but I broke up with my boyfriend (with the intent of it being just a break, maybe) 4 days ago and it was over the phone in the middle of the night and I was too emotional to really explain myself, so I was thinking about sending him a letter just getting all my thoughts out, basically explaining that I want to deal with my own issues before I can care for him properly. We’re long distance which is why I’m thinking of this rather than meeting in person. Is this a bad idea, or should I do it? I know it would make me feel a lot better, and I’d like to think him as well, but should I just leave him alone? I feel like I owe him and myself more of an explanation and conversation after 4 years together. Let me know your thoughts
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Relationship Stress / by kindTree9705
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 March 30th, 2021
...See more Hi, just went through my first break up (relationship of four years) I ended it for situational and personal reasons having nothing to do with how much I love him. It was honestly a perfect relationship besides the fact that I feel I have some growing to do on my own and need to learn how to be ok being single. I’m beyond heartbroken and feel as though I’ve done it to myself since I initiated the break up. I also feel immense guilt because I care about him so much and know how much pain I’m causing him. He was also such a massive part of my life and not speaking to him constantly like I used to feels like there’s this gaping hole in my life. Does it ever get better?
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Break up
Relationship Stress / by kindTree9705
Last post
 April 1st, 2021
...See more Hi, I’ve never posted here before I’m honestly just desperate to talk to someone about this. I broke up with my first boyfriend of four years (2 of them long distance) not because literally anything was wrong on his end, but I just feel like I need time to grow on my own as we’ve been together since I was 16 and I don’t know who I am without him, but that’s the problem. Even though I ended things, I am so unbelievably, debilitatingly sad. Like, everything everywhere reminds me of him and it’s so hard because I know I hurt him and he has been nothing but good to me, and under different circumstances I could see us being together forever. I guess I know I had to do it but at the same time I regret it because I miss him beyond words. I guess I’m wondering how to move on from something I caused and deep down hope will be rekindled at some point in the future? Or has anyone been through this and made it through?
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