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kindZebra5604
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Need advice please!
Relationship Stress / by kindZebra5604
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 April 16th, 2021
...See more So im basically a feeder, someone who has a fetish for weight gain and chubby/bigger girls etc. My gf atm is not that but not really that skinny either, a very good size. I also want to note i love her very much for who she is on the inside and she is incredible. But, she has recently been losing weight and I fear due to my preferences and natural attractions I wont find her as physically attractive. I dont want to disappoint her and have her not be the best looking for me, but im not sure how i can help what i like naturally. Any thoughts?
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Relationship Stress / by kindZebra5604
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 April 12th, 2021
...See more A little about myself, I am what is known as a feeder. So basically, I have a particular interest (or fetish) for bigger girls, chubbier girls, and so on. My girlfriend atm is not quite that but more so midsize than skinny. I am very happy with how she looks and have a great relationship. However, shes recently started losing weight and therefore is becoming smaller. This unfortunately does not line up with my natural interests. Now, I want to clarify that I do love her very much for the person she is and we are very happy together. I have also done the best I can in supporting her with her decisions and what she is doing, even though it may be hard sometimes and not exactly something I like that much. The problem is that if she continues to lose weight, I fear that I may not be as attracted to her physically or that when things are sexual, it just won’t do it for me. Again, I love her for the person she is and she is very incredible, but I don’t want to disappoint her and not be into her physically and sexually.
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