TW: Need Advice Please
A little about myself, I am what is known as a feeder. So basically, I have a particular interest (or fetish) for bigger girls, chubbier girls, and so on. My girlfriend atm is not quite that but more so midsize than skinny. I am very happy with how she looks and have a great relationship. However, shes recently started losing weight and therefore is becoming smaller. This unfortunately does not line up with my natural interests. Now, I want to clarify that I do love her very much for the person she is and we are very happy together. I have also done the best I can in supporting her with her decisions and what she is doing, even though it may be hard sometimes and not exactly something I like that much. The problem is that if she continues to lose weight, I fear that I may not be as attracted to her physically or that when things are sexual, it just won’t do it for me. Again, I love her for the person she is and she is very incredible, but I don’t want to disappoint her and not be into her physically and sexually.
You love her for who she is, and I think that fact will lead to things being better at the end. I guess communication would help. Tell her your fetish / concern, not to change her, but so that you're in the same page about the possible decrease of physical attraction. Then hopefully, you'll arrive at a compromise on either (1) she avoids losing weight, or (2) how to spice things up in other creative ways. After all, if your love is true, I guess you two can work it out :))
