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kitkatkeys123
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i’m stuck and tired
Relationship Stress / by kitkatkeys123
Last post
 May 17th, 2021
...See more my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 10 months and it’s never been better. we were best friends before we started dating and i’m so happy with the relationship. however, there is one issue. his ex girlfriend. a few months before we started dating he was in a MONTH long relationship with a girl who forced him to cut me off. their relationship was toxic but that’s it’s own story. during our entire friendship he had stopped talking to me for that month but she now makes it seem like i’m the reason they broke up. she claims that i wrecked their relationship but i wasn’t even in contact with him (except for once or twice and even then he would talk about how much he likes her). during their relationship i always said that if he’s happy then i’m happy for him and as it should be. fast forward and they’ve now broken up and we slowly became friends again and a little over a month later we begin dating. ik it’s not a long difference in between but we spent that month reconnecting and his doesn’t care for his ex at all. it’s been almost 11 months of our relationship but she still talks crap about me and posts things about me and him. she comments about how much she misses him. about 3 months into our relationship she did text me apologizing for everything but less than a month later asked him to cheat on me with her so talking to her is out of the picture. she’s much younger than we are (we’re about 2-3 years older than her) and st completely different points in our lives. i don’t want to speak with her and he has her blocked on everything but she still continues to hate me for things i haven’t done. i just want to leave her in the past but she won’t get over my bf.
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what do i do?
Relationship Stress / by kitkatkeys123
Last post
 April 24th, 2021
...See more my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 10 months now and we’re doing pretty well. he has an ex tho. i don’t have a problem with my SO having an ex bc that’s normal but she’s very obsessive. they’ve been broken up for over a year and she won’t stop talking about him. she even sent him a love letter about how much she misses him. they only dated for 3 weeks and he doesn’t feel the same at all. he has her blocked on everything but she even tried contacting his friends once. she hates me for the sole reason that i’m dating her ex, who was my best friend prior to them dating. while they were dating i had completely left his life bc she was so insecure of having me around and i was fine with that bc i respected their boundaries but she has this idea that i’m the reason they ended things. now over a year later since they’ve been together, she still posts about him on her tik tok, makes comments, talks about him, tries to get to him and wants to do all that she can to get rid of me. i know my boyfriend is just ignoring her and as am I but still seeing the things she does is unsettling. how do i change this for myself? it gives me anxiety even though there is not reason for it to. she means nothing to me or my boyfriend but after all that she’s done to ruin our relationship and the fact that she hasn’t gotten over him yet just bothers me. she also apologized to me for everything a few months into our relationship and 2 months later she asked my boyfriend to cheat on me with her, so talking to her about it is out of the pocture. i just want to leave her in the past.
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i’m so overwhlemed
Depression Support / by kitkatkeys123
Last post
 April 14th, 2021
...See more i feel like a burden. i’m doing poorly in school. i lash out whenever someone tries to speak to me. i’m easily get upset. i feel like my boyfriend wants to leave me. i found out my best friend was talking behind my back. it’s just becoming too much to handle. it gets worse each and everyday and i feel so overwhelmed.
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how do i fix this?
Relationship Stress / by kitkatkeys123
Last post
 April 14th, 2021
...See more my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 months now and before that he was my best friend. i’ve always struggled with opening up and i feel like it’s slowly becoming a burden when i can’t express how i’m feeling right away. today he said something and i had took it completely wrong which upset me and that wasn’t his intention at all and he apologized but idk if he meant the apology but because i didn’t believe he meant it, i just ddint answer him and he got upset. he says i do this all the time but that’s not true at all. we were doing completely fine and i’ve just been overwhelmed recently and this isn’t helping. now he’s going to bed upset and i can’t do anything about it. i’ve already apologized but he’s still upset.
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