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kittykat |
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Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

important note: i'm just getting back into 7 cups after about a year long hiatus. because of my mental health, my job, and other various real life issues, i will not be able to log on every day. i also may not be able to engage in one-on-one chats or respond to all of my messages when i do log on. it doesn't mean i'm ignoring you, it just means i'm taking a little bit of time for myself! thank you for the understanding.

hello! my name is kitkat, and i'm a trained active listener. i'm very passionate about helping people with all sorts of problems, but my specialties are anxiety and depression, as well as relationships (of all sorts, not just romantic) and LGBT support. i'm queer myself and have struggled with mental illness, and i want to help other people who are struggling with the same things. in my free time i like writing, acting, and blogging. if i'm online feel free to start a chat, and if not then send me a message! i am always willing to talk :)

Number of Ratings: 175
Number of Reviews: 53
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Feb 13, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 737
Cheers 43,041
People Helped 9
Chats 629
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 24
Forum Posts 168
Forum Upvotes 249
Growth Path Timeline
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Feedback & Reviews
Very kind and helpful
Hey Kittykat is a very good listener and I really enjoy talking too her she is a very good friend and I'll talk too her soon take care.
An outstanding listener with a heart of gold. Very kind and compassionate person :)
Very clever person!!!
She was really helpful and helped me calm down a bit Thank you Kitty! Your awesome! :3
Hey Kittykat is a very good listener and I really enjoy talking too her she is a very nice person and well talk at mid night take care.
A calming voice at a time of need. My first time using this website, and I'll definitely be back.
Hey how are you doing Kittykat is a very nice person and I really enjoy talking too her she is a very good listener and I want her too talk too me at mid night hope too hear from her real soon take care.
One of the most amazing listeners. I felt so at ease and was able to attempt to open up. A very kind and down to earth person. Thank you for making me feel better :)
Really understanding and supportive. Made me feel comfortable and seemed interested in what I had to say.
Really kind and willing to help.
Kittykat is one of the kindest and most understandable person I've ever met. I always feel much better after chatting with this lovely person.
Extremely empathetic, patient, and understanding. I feel so much better after speaking with this listener.
An amazing and extremely empathetic Listener. Takes real interest in what the members have to say and offers clean feedback. had me laughing and smiling in a few minutes. so so glad i got to talk to them. Bless you kitkat ♥
She was wonderful! I feel very safe around her and she's a wonderful listener.
sweet and amazing
Kittykat is amazing! Super nice, super available and kind. She's the sweetest. And like Harry Potter! Most importantly, Neville. Yes. :) Thank you for everything!
Kittykat is very nice and understanding.
thank you soo much you have helped me alot
Wow... I never thought I would connect so well with someone so much younger than me. Kitkat is extremely mature for her age and really knows what she is talking about!
A nice person who responds quickly
Thank you so much for empathizing and for kindly and patiently listening. I feel so much better. You are a wonderful person, and I wholeheartedly hope you continue to do this because you are absolutely great at it.
I cannot recommend kittykat highly enough. She was incredibly empathetic and patient and made me feel valued and understood as a person as well as giving me the space to just rant away when I needed to before feeding back.
Made me feel better
A very good listener :)
I have never seen anyone so helpful for me. the professionalism and empathy were fantastic. I am so glad I talked with her.
love her. she is so nice
simple words.. can never describe how that person was able to able help me... even when he/she didn't know anything about me.
very helpful
Thank you!!
Thank you. Very nice listener :)
Good and patient listener
She was super nice!
good empathy and listener
The best listener :)
Really understands.
Amazing listener and great help!! Helped me get through a very tough night.
Kitty sat there for almost 3 hours listening to me and helping me with questions I had, thank you so much.
Honestly she was a great listener and she was an even better active listener by following my request for a perspective on my situation. She listened and offered her take, which is exactly what I wanted.
Thank you, just thanks for being there. :)
very good listener
Thank you so much.
Good Listener, enjoyable and helpful talk.
Loved her/his way of being straight to the facts no matter how strong they sounded.
This person totally helped me! She could relate to me and actually got help for me! I would recommend this person!
really kind, and helped with distraction when struggling. thanks
Thanks for listening!
very caring and gives good advice
Very patient and helpful
I really felt understood and good with this chat with you. Can't wait to talk you you again. Better than going to therapy. XD
kind and very caring :) would love to talk again
She helped me completely unwind, I felt like purring at the end.
Badges & Awards
Recruit Magnet Peppermint Sage Envoy PenPal Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Piper of Dedication Baron of Big-Hearts Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Peter Pan Listener Oath Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Grad Cultural Diversity Da Vinci Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Psychological First Aid Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Love Bug Refresher Light Chat Tiny Chat Small Chat Voice Talker College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Startup Support Perinatal Schizophrenia Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Five Steps Hang 10
Questions Answered
What does depression feel like?
August 13th, 2015 4:37pm
How do you deal with depression after a breakup?
August 13th, 2015 5:02pm
How would you describe depression?
August 13th, 2015 4:51pm
What is the difference between sadness and depression?
October 30th, 2014 8:48pm
What kind of support is available for depression?
October 30th, 2014 8:56pm
Shouldn't I be able to get over depression on my own?
October 30th, 2014 8:16pm
Do I need to tell people that I'm depressed?
October 30th, 2014 9:11pm
Should I go on antidepressants?
October 30th, 2014 8:40pm
How to deal with stigma? What if I will be judged for having depression?
October 30th, 2014 8:23pm
How did I get depression?
October 30th, 2014 8:26pm
At what point should I seek help for how I feel?
October 30th, 2014 9:03pm
Is it normal to feel depressed around Christmas or the holidays?
October 30th, 2014 8:32pm
Is it irresponsible for me to have kids because I have depression?
August 13th, 2015 6:02pm
Why do depressed people push loved ones away?
August 13th, 2015 6:08pm
Why am I so depressed all of the time?
August 13th, 2015 6:03pm
How to get rid of depression?
August 13th, 2015 5:58pm
What's the best way to get over loneliness?
August 13th, 2015 4:56pm
How do I know if I'm sad or depressed?
August 13th, 2015 5:10pm
How can I deal with feelings I can't find words to express?
August 13th, 2015 5:01pm
How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?
July 31st, 2015 5:08am
How can I learn to control my emotions when I don't even know what they are?
August 13th, 2015 5:12pm
I feel like no one ever taught me how to manage my emotions-how do I start now?
October 30th, 2014 8:19pm
Why do I feel so numb all the time?
July 31st, 2015 5:13am
How do I know if I have trouble with emotion regulation and what does that mean anyway?
October 30th, 2014 9:10pm
Someone yelled at me and I couldn't yell back, how can I vent?
October 30th, 2014 8:12pm
I'm so nervous during presentations and meetings, how can I improve my public speaking?
October 30th, 2014 8:21pm
I don't like my job anymore. Should I quit or continue doing it?
August 13th, 2015 4:41pm
Why do people hate me for no reason?
August 13th, 2015 5:06pm
How long does a panic attack last?
August 13th, 2015 4:34pm
Are there any disorders associated with panic attacks?
October 30th, 2014 7:51pm
If I'm having a lot of panic attacks, does that mean that there is a problem?
October 30th, 2014 8:29pm
How can others act when I am having a panic attack?
October 30th, 2014 9:13pm
If I have one panic attack, what are the chances I will have another?
October 30th, 2014 8:37pm
Are panic attacks normal? I feel like I'm going crazy.
October 30th, 2014 8:44pm
How can I calm down during a panic attack?
August 13th, 2015 5:09pm
How do I know if I'm really having a panic attack or if I'm just freaking out?
August 13th, 2015 4:44pm
Does having anxiety make me a weak person?
October 30th, 2014 8:14pm
What are the different types of anxiety?
October 30th, 2014 9:01pm
Can anxiety cause me to feel depressed?
August 13th, 2015 4:47pm
Will my anxiety ever go away?
August 13th, 2015 6:05pm
Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?
August 13th, 2015 6:00pm
What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?
August 13th, 2015 4:50pm
I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
August 13th, 2015 5:16pm
Why does breaking up hurt so much?
August 13th, 2015 4:46pm
How long does it take to get over someone?
August 13th, 2015 4:57pm
My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?
August 13th, 2015 4:53pm
Why does this have to happen to me?
August 13th, 2015 6:10pm
Is it okay to be single forever?
August 13th, 2015 4:39pm
How can I get over my trauma?
October 30th, 2014 8:52pm
I tried to talk to someone about what happened to me, but they just said I should stop complaining. Are they right?
October 30th, 2014 8:35pm
How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?
August 13th, 2015 4:59pm
What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
August 13th, 2015 5:13pm