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Huge fight with my bf...need advice
Relationship Stress / by ktasha
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 December 30th, 2017
...See more I am going to try my best and shorten the details of this question as best as possible. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years, we barely fight or argue, we love eachother very much but in the past year we've gotten into a few arguments over this one issue. In the first 2 years of dating he would see me all the time, call me all the time and put in a lot of effort. In recent years all that died down- and I felt I was no longer a priority and he no longer cared to see me as much anymore. Just recently I lost my dad to a heart attack and this week the grieving was harder than it was the day my dad died (due to the holidays etc). A few days before the holidays I expressed several times to my boyfriend how i sad i was feeling, and he visited a few friends before the holidays which made me a little upset to why he did not visit me considering how tough of a week I had. Yesterday we were supposed to have breakfast but he forget to set his alarm which ended up with me calmly explaining how i felt about how I was at the end of his priority list this week and I needed him the most because i was grieving the death of my dad. He ended up BLOWING UP and telling me it was unfair that I would even my mentions dad's death as a leverage, he was yelling telling me he has other priorities in his life and he should be allowed to see friends and family before me without having that be a problem. he called me immature and did not agree with anything I had said and my feelings felt invalid to him. I calmed him down, explained the way I feel and why I feel the way I feel and told him that Im working on some insecuritys that were left from my past relationship (ex boyfriend abused me) and that Im willing to work on things etc. I guess i was shocked that he got THAT angry over what I said and after we calmly ended the argument i cried myself to sleep while he was texting me as if nothing happened telling me he didn't want me to be upset etc. was i wrong? what do i do?
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